Part Two – The Power of LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER

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Part Two of – “A happy Marriage or Dating Relationship is LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER.” In this post I share a second key element, LIVING, from my signature coaching program "RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH: LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER"  She was in tears as she said “I love him but I can’t LIVE with him”. Sonja’s heart was broken and bitter about her relationship with Tyrone. She truly loved him but they argued and had long periods of not talking to each other. On the other han...
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The Power of LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER

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A happy Marriage or Dating Relationship is LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER. In this series of  posts I will  share what LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER  means. I will also share the key elements of how to obtain them. This post,  and the ones to follow,  are from my signature coaching program "RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH: LOVING, LIVING AND LAUGHING TOGETHER"  In my coaching practice, people share a lot about the "Love Drama"  they are experiencing. It ranges from we argue about ev...
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21 Ways To Say I Love You – Part 4

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21 Ways To Say I Love You – Part 4 The purpose of this list is to stimulate more loving interactions in your marriage and dating life. Deep interaction doesn’t always require profound and extra-ordinary effort. You can build bridges and great depth of love with simple and daily actions.   Treasure Each Day Together Be sure to express to your spouse each day how much they mean to you. Don’t allow what seems to be the common-ness of each day to rob you of how special each day ...
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21 Ways To Say I Love You – Part 5

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The purpose of this list is to stimulate more loving interactions in your marriage and dating life. Deep interaction doesn’t always require profound and extra-ordinary effort. You can build bridges and great depth of love with simple and daily actions.   Massage their feet A foot massage is a great way to help your love one to relax. It also shows great concern and emotional attachment on your part. If you find it difficult to give a foot massage, pay for them to have one done a...
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21 Ways To Say I Love You – Part 6

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The purpose of this list is to stimulate more loving interactions in your marriage and dating life. Deep interaction doesn’t always require profound and extra-ordinary effort. You can build bridges and great depth of love with simple and daily actions.   Put Gas in Her Car It’s Monday morning and she is in a rush to get to work. There were a million things to do over the weekend and getting gas in the car was not one of them.  Now she is hopeful there is enough gas in the car t...
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21 Ways To Say I Love You – Part 7

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In this Blog series “21 Ways To Say I Love You” I will share some common but effective methods to show love in your relationship. Lean how to Light the fire in your marriage, Live the life you were meant to live, and Love your mate.  The purpose of this list is to stimulate more loving interactions in your marriage and dating life. Deep interaction doesn’t always require profound and extra-ordinary effort. You can build bridges and great depth of love with simple and daily ac...
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What Father’s Day Means to Me

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Making sense of life is sometimes best done by looking back at it. It is after looking at the events and the impact of the people involved, you can get a clearer picture of the why and the how it all fits together. I think this is true as it applies to my memories of Father’s Day. When I was a little boy Father’s Day meant buying gifts for this giant of a man in my life who wanted little and gave a lot. One of the hardest tasks was looking for something unique to give my Dad.  Unlike other me...
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3 Things Couples Do To Hurt Their Marriage And How to Solve Them

3 Things Couples Do To Hurt Their Marriage
Every couple wants a loving, supportive and lasting marriage. However, as the Bible says, "the little foxes, that spoil the vine" . In other words it is not the BIG items that take a toll on your marriage. It is one or two and in this case 3 things that can severely harm your marriage. Let's look at 3 things that most couples do wrong and how you can avoid them.1. Argue about money. The “love of money is the root of all evil”. It is also the root of most disagreement in a marriage. One pers...
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You Are the Only One Who Can Create Your Dream Relationship

The future belongs to those who create it
Someone once said “The way to cope with the future is to create it.”  While most of us can understand how this “create the future” principle applies to science and medicine, it may not be apparent how it can apply to your relationship. Most people want the future to just come to them without any planning or working on their part. The only place “success” comes before “work” is in the dictionary. The way to make the future happen is to create it. You can create it by: Get with y...
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A Love That Will Last a Lifetime

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My wife and I just celebrated our 39th wedding anniversary. I am so grateful for her and our relationship in so many ways.  Our love for each other has grown year by year. What I found interesting was the number of people who were amazed we were celebrating 39 years together. To some of them it was an "earth shattering feat". However, in my mind I am more in awe of the people who have 60 or 65 years together. While being married, and happily married, for 39 years is great, our goal is to s...
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